Dilemma

SO... I know there are A LOT more important things to be thinking about these days, but I have kind of a silly dilemma that I really am needing to make a decision about.. and just am not sure what to do.

The dilemma: How to spend gift card money. (Told ya it was silly!)

Here's the deal. My BFF Jody got me a gift card to the Pointe Spa at Bethany Athletic Club here in Beaverton. Its of good size $$.. she was thinking I could get a nice pedi or massage or something.

I've been holding onto it for a while... I found out I was pregnant about a month after I received it and thought I could get a pregnancy message with it. But then I started thinking about my chronic back issues. A massage is more "medicinal" for me more than relaxing, so I wonder if it would be worth it.

Then I had an idea.. but am really torn about it.
The idea: a fun hair cut/color before baby comes.

So.. some of you know (or you may know just by looking at my hair..heehee) that I go to Great Clips to get my hair cut. Its cheap (and we are on a pretty tight budget) and they usually do an okay job. I have been coloring my own hair for many years now (premature grey.. thanks Dad for giving me those genes.. UGH!). So to have someone who can tell me what looks good on me and have a good cut would be so refreshing and a treat!

The problem is that I can only go ONCE... cuz I have the gift card $$. There is NO way I can afford to be a return customer. The other issue is I don't know anyone who gets their hair done there. I am just assuming they would do a stellar job, but that isn't certain. But it sounds SO fun to get my hair done at a nice place, even if its just once.

So.. do I go do it and then just let Great Clips upkeep it? Could they do that effectively? Should I not risk it and just get a nice pedi? Or try to enjoy a pregnancy message? I. Just. Don't. Know.

Again.. a rather silly dilemma for this "not-so-girly girl who still likes to feel pretty", but one I need to figure out.

Thoughts?

Stop Drop & Roll.

Evelyn and I went to tour a Tualatin Valley Fire and Rescue Station today with some friends. My goodness, they do SUCH a great job with the kids!! (Oh, did I mention that this was a free tour?) The ages of our kiddos ranged from 9 months to almost 7 years, and Fireman Zach was very good at talking with all of them. He made it very fun, exciting and interactive. He also was very honest with the kids and didn't sugar coat the need for learning fire safety. Although some of it was probably a bit scary for the kids to listen to, I think it was important for them all to hear it. Evelyn listened very intently and has been asking questions and talking about it most of the day. I would highly recommend doing this with your kids if you haven't. They also do birthday parties (again.. for free!)!!

Ready to go!! SO excited!

Little E, BIG Fire Truck!

Fireman Zack chatting about the hoses...

The troops listening to Zach

Juliet wasn't in a photo mood.. ;)

My good listener!

So.. when the alarms sound, they have less than 60 seconds to go from this...

to this.. fully suited up with 70+ pounds on them!!

Sitting in the firetruck... the big highlight for most of the kids!

Look out.. she's behind the wheel!

Evelyn and Juliet.. best buddies (and silly to boot!)

It was such a fun time and a learning experience for the kids (and honestly, I think the moms learned a TON, too.. I know I did!!). Just one of many reasons to support bond measures that in turn support these fine servants who protect us and are willing to risk their lives to save ours!!

Fair Time....

We took Evelyn to her very first fair on Sunday. We met up with Doug's parents and went to the State Fair in Salem. It was such a fun day and a great time spent with family.

I was hoping Evelyn would nap in the car on the way down. No such luck. So we just were hopeful she wouldn't melt down while we were there! Thankfully she did really well. We had to work on keeping her awake on the way back to Doug's parent's house, but other than that she rocked!! I think overall it was a bit overwhelming for her... it is a huge event. We might try a smaller county fair next time we do it.. we'll just see.

Here are some highlights...

Evelyn's favorite part of the fair? Eating her first ever ice cream cone!!

Of course we saw MANY animals. Her favorite was the baby pigs.. but I didn't get any pics of those.. go figure!!

My mother-in -law is an amazing seamstress and embroiderer. She won two blue ribbons this year!

Other shots from the afternoon.....

She walked most of the time, but occasionally caught a ride on daddy's shoulders!

It was a bit warm... glad to have water!!

Tractors are cool!!

I love my Grandma!!

Another favorite at the fair for my sweet pea? The "haystack"!! She really didn't want to get off!

Happy family at the fair!

Remember Me?

Um... yeah. Its been quite a while since I have posted. No reason to ramble on about excuses.. it is what it is. I really want to keep this blog going on a regular basis (I plan to turn it into a scrapbook or something for the kids when they get bigger) but man, its hard lately! But... time to just get back on the horse. Below are three.. yes, three new posts to start the catch up process!! I will do my best to keep it up!! Enjoy!

Pregnancy Update

I cannot believe I am 24 weeks already.. yet at the same time I find myself saying, "I'm only 24 weeks?" I really am not wanting to complain because I am SO thankful to be given this gift of life after trying for a while to complete our family. It is just a lot harder this time around.. for many reasons. I know I am doing too much, eating too much, and not sleeping enough.. I am just praying to finish out this pregnancy issue free and give birth to a healthy baby. My poor sweet husband has had to put up with A LOT of whining this go-around! He is amazing.. and I am truly not worthy!

And for those who don't know... it appears we are having a BOY! I am still trying to wrap my mind around that. I was honestly hoping for another girl.. for different reasons. As time goes on, tho, I am getting more and more excited to have a son. I'm not sure if I can handle the drama of two girls in the house! ;) Evelyn even has a name picked out for our little guy: "Bill". And she is serious about that. I'm still not quite sure where she came up with it, but it has stuck in her cute little mind. I am hoping her heart isn't too broken when we DON'T name him that.. heehee! Oh.. and if it was a girl, she wanted to name her "Lisa". Again... NO clue where she comes up with this stuff! ;) She is talking more about being a big sister and I am pretty sure she will fill that role beautifully!

One lesson we learned from our last pregnancy is, "Get as MUCH done as you can BEFORE the baby comes!!" We didn't heed that advice with Evelyn and sometimes wonder what on earth we did with all of our free time before she came along.. and why we didn't get more done!! ;) Needless to say we are on a mission to get quite a bit accomplished in the next 3 months!! Wish us luck!

Our little man at 20 weeks!

New Car...

We have been talking about making a car change before the baby is born.. for a few different reasons. The main one being that my car would sell better with less miles on it, as it is a rather special car (2003 Mercury Marauder.. they didn't make very many!). It was coming up on 45K and so we thought we would slowly start the process last month. We weren't sure how long it would take to sell it, especially in this economy. Doug started putting feelers out to people who had expressed interest in the car (quite a few people have said to him/us, "Let me know if you ever sell it...."). We figured we'd start there before spending money on advertising right away. Doug started talking about it at work and a co-worker of his says "I'm really interested". What a blessing to have interest SO quickly.. we have so much to do to get ready for the baby.. adding a long "sell the car/but a new car" process was anticipated but certainly not hoped for!!

Of course, since the car had been the "family car", it needed some extra detailing/clean up before it was "shown". That meant that Evelyn's car seat had to come out of it. Which in turn meant that the truck got to be my "driver" for a while (there is already a car seat installed in it which is nice). Well, let's just say I'm really not cut out to be a truck drivin' momma!! Don't get me wrong, I am thankful for the truck and don't dislike driving it.. I just can't see myself driving it on a daily basis.. it just is too big! Anyway... we sold the car that week!! Such a huge answer to prayer! We hope and pray that the new owner enjoy the car as much as we did!!

Then we kinda of went in to "find a car" overdrive mode. We knew what we wanted (we had been looking and test driving for a while), it was just a matter of finding the best deal and staying within the budget we had set for this purchase. We found it.. in Sacramento, Ca! After many phone calls, faxes, and emails, Doug flew down (with frequent flyer miles... yeah!!) to pick up our new wheels and drive the long drive home. It was a long day for him, waking at 5am for the flight and arriving home with the car after midnight. Yet one more reason to love him!!

So what is it you ask? Its a 2008 Ford Taurus X (one of their crossover vehicles). It has 3 rows of seats (both back rows fold down for lots of cargo space), plenty of leg room, and drives awesome. I LOVE LOVE LOVE it!! Evelyn does, too. At least once a day she gets in the car and says, "I love the new car, mommy" or "I love the pretty (leather) seats, mommy!" Even better was that we got such an amazing deal on it! So excited to be driving this car.. hopefully for a very long time!!

Here it is.. not the best pic but you get the idea!

Uncle Scott

Uncle Scott (in blue shirt) giving a blessing last June at Hayley's graduation party

Many of you know that my dear Uncle Scott had a massive heart attack on July 11th while visiting here from the Seattle area. Thank you to those who have been praying. Scott is now up in a special hospital up in Seattle, and still is in a coma-like state. We are praying for a miracle.. and know God is able to heal him. But there are also realities that are having to be faced that are painful beyond words. He is only 53. He is a man that puts faith family and friends first... I would call him the "glue" that keeps the family together. We love him so much.. for so many reasons! My aunt and cousins (ages 16 and 19) are doing as well as can be expected.. but need prayer just as much as Scott does! It has certainly been a long and trying 6 weeks.. but as we told the doctors.. we are a family of faith and remain on our knees and hopeful. Scott would want nothing less!